Being heartbroken, lost, confused, struggling to proceed in life, and feeling like giving up reminds you that life is unfair. Life is indeed unjust. But those trials in life are tests or barriers to your success.
While reading this, recall a situation that; you achieved in life by overcoming hurdles and barriers. How do you feel?
You just left a heavy sigh unconsciously. That’s life. That’s what life makes you feel when you beat tests in life. And I wish to remind you that you are not the only person experiencing despair, sorrow, and unhappiness in life. Even the wealthiest person in this world might be undergoing some kind of hardship. Life is a combination of happiness and sadness and success and failure. If you have noticed in life: any human being will be happy for a few days and then follows sadness. Let’s say you have been sad for more than a week; I assure your happiness will follow. That is how life is.

And now, I’m going to mention five situations in life that you think are the end of life,

1. Breakup
Here breakup means especially with boy/girlfriend or husband/wife.
Breakup probably occurs due to a mismatch in various forms in the relationship. If you are experiencing detachment in a relationship, think that you have got a chance to find your best partner. Think positively. We all human beings live once, and if you spend your days fretting and worrying about what departed you, that is useless. Because, you know, only you are responsible for your life. It is by your choice your life is FASHIONED. There is a history of people who have broken up with partners and now living a happy life. So, never think this is the end of life.

2. Hard work doesn’t pay off.
There are situations in which you work hard, and nothing goes the way you wish. Such occasions do exist. And also, you find someone known to you works less but succeeds. Such occurrences influence you to give up in life. But remember giving up in life is just stopping what you are trying for despite if you work hard amidst failure, you can achieve it someday.

  • Never compare yourself with others.
  • And while creating your path in life, you will encounter numerous hurdles. Such hindrances are thorns that you should fight to get away.

3. Exam failure.
Even I Pressure myself during exams. I neglect proper sleep and food when exam dates are closer. And even there are times I work very hard for the exams, and I don’t get the results I predicted. But as a student, you would feel this is the end. My effort is worthless. Remember, exams at school or university are not the whole life. Tests at school or university are just a trivial part of your education journey.
For instance, you might study well for the exams, and, on the exam day, you fall ill. And you couldn’t give your best. That doesn’t mean that’s the end of life.

  • You should be clear on your goals.
  • Never listen to people who demotivate you.
  • Doing exams again (re-sit) is not a disgrace; it only builds your confidence in your goal.
  • Never compare yourself with students who do well.

4. Insecure about looks/appearance.

Insecure about oneself builds surely when people around you comment about your looks. And when you start to take those feedback to your brain, you feel some unhealthy thoughts.
One thing I always like to remind myself is everyone is unique. Look at the five fingers; they are not equal. That’s how God has created each one of us. And if you try to conceal yourself or attempt to change, then you are living a life according to the people around you. Be confident about your skin. Never allow others to decide or demotivate you in anyways.

5. Getting married.
Most of them think that; marriage hinders life achievement and goals. People believe marriage restricts their living. They feel it is the end of a free life. But it’s not true. Marriage plays a crucial role in one’s life. Imagine if your parents had thought marriage ends life, then the generation would have no future. So, by getting married to a suitable partner and then becoming a wonder woman like balancing personal and professional life, you can become an example for your children and the people out there.

Your problems are different from mine. However, never allow problems to devastate you. Only you are responsible for your happiness.so think positive and wise.